Traits of a befriender. Have you got it?

by Navya Singh, Content Contributor

Yay, you get to volunteer as a befriender! But wait, what are you supposed to do? What qualities do you need? What are the dos and don’ts? Not to worry, we have got just the article to help you! Here is the ultimate guide on how to be a befriender

Tan Erica, a student at SIM, shares her dos and don’ts of being a befriender. Erica spends her free time volunteering, making beautiful cards and spending time with her friends. When not doing that, she can be found at a quaint café enjoying a cup of coffee.

DO NOT

1. Talk about sensitive issues

Avoid sensitive topics such as religion, politics and family unless you are super close to your beneficiary. Stick to lighter topics. Ask about their favourite shows, movies, hobbies etc. If you’re lucky you might find common ground and really get to bond!

2. Overpromise

You might find that your beneficiary really enjoys your visits. As a result, you say perhaps you could visit more often. Do not say that. Do not promise anything until you are sure of it. If you make promises and break them, they tend to remember. And this will harm your relationship…

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First published in Club Rainbow Singapore LinkedIn article.

Come what may...

Come rain or shine, caregivers of our children will always stand by their little ones.

Why should we step back when haze and rain came upon us on the Saturday morning of Celebrating Heroes 2019? All the more to put our best foot forward in acknowledging their admirable efforts and to celebrate these unwavering everyday unsung heroes.

We hosted close to 1000 participants this year, which includes our children, their families and volunteers. The event was held at the Singapore Zoo, amongst nature – both flora and fauna. We are happy to have our guest emcee, Mr Gurmit Singh who has been supporting Club Rainbow (Singapore) since our humble beginnings.

Two programme tracks ran concurrently. One for caregivers with various activities such as yoga, self-massaging techniques, ways to manage stress and anxiety, etc. while the children's programme managed by the NTU team – treasure hunt and fringe activities both of which received an overwhelming response from our little ones and caregivers!

We were blessed to have volunteers from FTI consulting, Andaz, Singapore Healthcare, Young Living, NTU, NUS, SIM and our ardent regulars. With these passionate volunteers coming together to brave the hazy and grey morning with us helped to bring the event through to a sunny afternoon for everyone.

We received both thanks and positive feedback from families and volunteers! Awesome day for all!

Taking a cue from our caregivers, don't let the bad weather outlook get you down. Here are ways to keep healthy, take a B.R.E.A.K and stay on top:

• Build deep connections by staying connected with support groups, friends and family.

• Reconcile with yourself daily with tips from wellness and mindfulness workshops.

• Eat healthily and rest regularly.

• Always seek help when needed.

• Keep hydrated at all times, most importantly.